The longer I’m on this Earth, the more I realize how easy it is to get sucked into negative vibes and energy from others. At first you don’t see how it’s truly affecting you, but over time (especially as you grow older), you start to notice. For me, it really hit in my mid-20’s. I started pin-pointing exactly where my negative energy was stemming from and told myself that I had to get rid of it and everything that was causing it. When you are holding vibes that don’t uplift and inspire you, it’s hard to progress and lead the lifestyle you want for yourself. Sure, this means getting rid of a few things you thought you needed, but that’s what growth in your 20s is all about! Keep reading for ways I dealt (currently deal) with negative energy from different factors of my life.
We watch these movies, and even shows, that make it seems like we must be overly aggressive to get what we want – bashing co-workers, stepping on toes, etc. Truth is, you don’t have to be overly anything. Now I will say that it’s very beneficial to speak up for yourself when need be, but sometimes being the loudest in the room doesn’t mean you’re the most knowledgeable. You must know when to draw certain lines, and when you need to fight your battles.